Please respond to the following questions:
How can a persons' level of self-esteem affect relationships with others?
How can self-esteem affect a persons' ability to set and achieve goals?
Why do people think that being different from others is a bad thing?
What are good things about being different?
Are put downs different if they are from family or from friends? Explain
Can you increase your level of self-esteem once you are an adult or do you think it will be too late by then?
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Self esteem is very important to all of us even though sometimes we might say that we don’t care, but inside of us we know that’s its not true. When a friend put you down or make fun of you they may think its funny but they don’t think about how you feel and what is going on inside of you. By having this experience we all should learn from it and next time when we try to put somebody down or make fun of him/her first we need to put our self in their shoes and think about how we would feel if we were in their place. So all I'm trying to say is that self esteem is very important to everyone and having low self esteem will make more problems for you and for people around you, so if somebody try to make fun of you try to ignore him and just tell yourself that you are better person then they are and smarter.
self esteem can be good sometimes or bad because they could have there good days or there bad days but it sometime can affect relationships.Some self esteem can affect there goals because they can have a good self esteem and they want to follow there goals and other stuff.People can think that being different are bad but its not bad because they see the person and say they bad or good but i dont judge them.The good thing of being different is that they can act different but also can be a good friend or person or students.Somtimes putting some down can be bad if a friend because they take far they dont when to stop, if it from a family memeber they know when to stop and laugh and joke with them.Yes i think i can increase my level of self esteem because i'm a adult because i know what i want and i want to do with my life.
How do you feel when somebody else try to make fun of you or put you down in front of your friends/family? What is your first reaction?
I think that if a person has low self-esteem, that person will be very moody, and sad alot. A person's self-esteem can affect a person acieveing their goals because if their self-esteem is low they may feel down all the time and want to say in their own little world. I don't think being diffrent is a bad thing because being different makes you, you. Putdowns arent diffrent no matter where they come from because they still hurt that person's feeling no matter where the putdown came from, and I think it would hurt more if it came from a family memeber because family is supposed to be nice and supporting and loving, and putdowns are very mean. I think you can increase your level of self-esteem when you get older (Adult) because when you get older you learn about how you can boost your level of self-esteem and love your self for you :-)
A persons' level of self-esteem can affect their relationships with others because if they don't have respect for theirselves then it will be hard for them to give it to others.
If a person has low self-esteem then it will be hard for them to set goals because they don't believe in theirselves. So if you don't believe in yourself then it would be hard for you to achieve goals.
I think that people think that when you are being different people would make fun of you. This really happens with teens because they want to be with the "in crowd" and when we are in our teen years we have a lot of differnet paths that we can take, and only us as individuals can choose the path that we want to take.
When anyone puts you down your feeling get hurt so I don't think that there is a difference about family and friends put downs.
It is possible that you can increase your self-esteem when you're an adult, but I think it would take some time to do.
I think that if a person self esteem is down they do not feel good with themselvws and it would be hard to feel good or to treat other people good.
Self esteem can affect relationships because the partner might feel bad with him/her self that will try to put the partner down too. And if someone try to put your self down just keep your head up and tell your self that you are better than that person......:)
a person self esteem affects a person relationshp with others. a person with low self esteem may find themselves in an abusive relationship because they feel in them.a person who have high self esteem are more likey to set a goal and achive it. they have confidence in their abilities.a lot of times people feel that being different will make them standout. especially if the have low self esteem, they just want to blend in. the postive side of being different is that you have the possbiliy of shining. you can be the one that everybody looks up to the role model. put downs are put down and they hurt no matter who they come from.this is a hard question because. i think time you are an adult, you are who you are going to be personalilty wise.
When it comes to relationships self esteem can make you the popular kid at school and a person that everyone wants to get to know. But only if you have high self esteem. Low self esteem will most likely cause someone to withdraw from public attention of any kind. Also affecting relationships in a negative way. As for setting and achieving goals if your not confident in what you want to do because you think you can't do it then i don't believe you'll set any types of goals not to mention achieve them. I think that when people see others being different they don't really see things from their point of view. Basically they are just closed minded and think that if everyone around them doesn't act like them it's an issue. There are a lot of good things about being different. You don't have to stress about molding your entire being to someone else's. To me Put downs to me are all the same it just depends on the delivery. If your friends calls you a loser but does it in a joking way then there is no problem. The same goes for a family member. What matters is the delivery of the comment not necessarily who it comes from. And I don't exactly think anybody will run out of time to feel better about themselves.
SELF ESTEEM PERSON WHIT A GOOD SELF ESTEEM IS VERY FRIENDLY KINDA AND ALL DOES THING AND PERSON WHIT LOW SELF ESTEEM IS VERY GRUMPY MOODY NOT FEELING GOOD SAD AND ALL THE BAD THINGS..A PERSON HAD A GAOL FOR THE FUTURE OR A DAY WEEK WATHEVER IF THERE NOT FEELING GOOD THERE NOT IN THE MOODY YOU CAN'T ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL..SOME PEOPLE THING OF OTHER PEOPLE AS BAD NOT GOOD TO HANG OUT WITH BUT THEY DON'T EVEN NOW THEM DON'T JUDGE A PERSON IF YOU DON'T KNOW THEM GET TO KNOW THEM THEN IF YOU LIKE THEM OR NOT...GOOD THINGS ABOUT BEING DIFFERNT IS YOU NEED TO KNOW WHO YOUR TRUE AND REAL FRIENDS ARE DON'T FOLLOW THE WRONG PATH OR A PERSON YOU MAY GET ALOT OF DIFFERNT LOOKS FROM OTHER PEOPLE THATS WHY CHOOSE WHO YOU HANG OUT WITH AND FOLLOW YOUR OWN GOOD THING...IF SOME BODY PUT YOU DOWN IN FRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILY THATS GOING TO BE A DIFFERENT STORY AM USING MY SELF AS AN EXAMPLE IF SOMEBODY PUT ME DOWN IN FRONT OF MY FRIENDS I WILL START GOING CRAZY AND MAYBE GET IN TROUBLE FOR THAT I DON'T LIKE THAT SO PEOPLE NEED TO WATCH WATH THEY SAY IN FRONT OF SOMEPEOPLE BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE GET EFFENDED BY SOMETHING THEY SAY...MY SELF ESTEEM I GET MY DAYS WHEN I DON'T FEEL LIKE TALKING TOKNOW BODY I GET IN A MOODY I GET ANGRY ALL THAT STUFF AM TRYING TO WORK ON THAT AND I HAVE NOW IDEA IN MY FUTURE HOW MY SELF ESTEEM IS GOING TO BE... THANK YOU ~FAHIRA~
If a person has a low self-esteem they may not try to get into a relationship with someone because they are afraid of rejection. Also it will affect his/her relationship with their friends because it is uncomfortable to hang out with someone who is always sad, and even when you try to help them they refuse to change. When setting goals you set them depending on what you believe you can achieve. If you have a low-self esteem you will set your goals much lower than someone who is always happy because you don’t believe in yourself. The reason people who look down at others for being different is because pop culture and the media today says that for you to fit in and be accepted by others you have to act, talk and dress a certain way. Though if you are different that means that you are unique and you are yourself. You don’t try to imitate what others do just because you want to fit in. Also if you are different you can see who your true friends are because they will accept you for who you are. Put downs are different because a family member may criticize you for something, but in the end they will still care about you. Though a put down from friends most of the time is made for as a joke and that is understood between your group of friends. But there is a possibility that the joke that was said was to really attack and criticize you on something. This could cause a conflict between the two friends and their friendship will probably not last. Yes, you can increase your level of self-esteem once you are an adult because when you go off to college no one knows you unless someone from your school decided to go to the same school. Because no one knows you this gives you an opportunity to be who you are and try to make true friends.
Baby Blue, if I know the person who tried to put me down in front of my family, my first reaction would be to laugh because I would think that it is a joke. Though if someone I didn’t know did that my first reaction would be to ask them “What is your problem?”.
I agree with what LinkinPark22 says when it comes to having low self esteem and making friends no one wants to be around someone who is always unhappy. But at the same time we all have our bad days. But i don't exactly understand your position on increasing your self esteem when your an adult. Yeah going to college is a chance for a fresh start but will being in a different environment cause someone to automatically forget the things that made their self esteem low in the first place? Maybe later on down in life when someone really finds out where they fit in life will their self esteem change in my opinion.
I agree with baby blue gallant 7, the reason why I believe with them is because I got put down by some my friends when they are all making jokes about someone and then move right on to me. I mean I laugh but not because it’s funny I laugh because I don’t want to look stupid. They don’t know that what they are saying is bothering me but once I tell them some of them stop. I think a persons level of self-esteem does effect relationships with others the way it effects the relationship is the way by all the ridicule you get by other people you will start to think the things that the people or your friends are saying is true. For example what of a person the opposite sex tells you that they like you and you look very nice or beautiful you wont believe them because you herd your whole life otherwise. On the other hand self- esteem is not always negative thing if someone is always hearing that they look beautiful or they look good. They will start acting cocky they will think they are the best at everything and they can get anyone they want. Most of the time it’s not even like that. A good thing about being different is you won’t be boring or like everybody else. People tell me all the time that im different im not like every other person they meet. I always take that as a good thing because I would rather be different. Being different is like being a leader not following the crowd when your different you are doing your own thing doing things you like, being your self. When you are the same as everybody else then you would just be plain.
a person's self esteem level can affect their relationship with other people because if the person is alwayz complaining that their life sucks people are going to get sick of hearing the same thing from that person's mouth.People think that they arent part of the group if they are different than others.If a person has a low self esteem they aren't going to believe in themselves and well never be able to accomplish a goal. Good things about being different is you get recognize by others and they might want to try being different.Put downs are different if they are from familys and friends because you made a bond with them and can tell when they are joking around with you. I think that u can boost yourself esteem as a teen if u really work on it, but yes you can boost your self esteem as a adult.
Self esteem is something us teenagers may thing its really not that important, but deep down it really is. Self-esteem can ruin relationships towards friends because by making fun of someone, they feel upset and have respect for themselves. So if you call someone to fat or to skinny they take it offensive even though they may laugh at it. But you never know when they get home, they starve themselves or eat more then they suppose to because of what you said. By making persons self esteem low, their goals will be like something from the passed because they feel like its not really important to them anymore. But if you encourage someone to continue their goals, they feel well about it and are determined to keep trying. To be honest, I don’t know why people think being different is a bad thing because we are all different and unique. Everything about us is different and we should appreciate it. I think put downs are all the same even if they are your family because like I said before, people may act like the joke was funny, but when they are alone you never know they may take it offensive. I think increasing your self esteem can be increased anytime during you life because there may still be adults that may put you down and you should be thinking to yourself that you are a better person and you will succeed.
A persons' level of self-esteem can affect relationships by depression, emotions, friendship, and choices. It can also change the person's mood depending on its level.
A person's level of self-esteem affect re;ationships with others by depression, friendship, choices, and emotions. It can also affect a person's behavior depending on how high or low it is.
Self-esteem can affect a person's ability to set goals by the height of its level. If it is high, that person can achieve his/her goals faster. If it istoo low, the depression from it would slow that person down or possibly prevent that person from setting or achieving his/her goals.
People think that being different from others is a bad thing, because it could get other people in trouble or possibly get arrested.
The good things about being different is that if a person is mean or rude and you are not, and not do whatever that person do, you would not earn consequences and earn resptct for doing the right thing. Putdowns are different if they are from family or friends, because they can let a person feel sad about where he/she lives in and which school she goes to. For example, if a student talks junk (say bad things about you) about a new kid's clothes or shoes, the new kid woud feel depressed about how he is going to a school like that and probably hide from people for life to try not to goto school for the rest of his/her life. Or if his family talks junk about thier son or daughter, that person woud run away from them and might never come back.
It might be too late to increase your level of self-esteem once you are an adult, because in your adult life, there will be marriage, tax incomes, all types of bills, and jobs and dealing with those can increase stress and increase the level of your self-esteem.
If you have a low self-esteem your relasiounship with others wount be as good. If you feel sorry for your self and you dont feel good other people will feel the same way for you. You wount have many friends because you would not want to do many things. Also if you have low self-esteem you wount have many gouls for your self. You will think that you cant make it in the world. If you think about these things it will make you feel sad and it will make you think you cant do anything or be anyone so you wount set gouls for yourself and you wount have many dreams. People think beeing different is a bad thing because everyone wants to fit in and be cool like everyone else. What many teenagers dont know is that beeing different is a good thing. Not listening to the same music or wearing the same shouse is a good thing. They need to think about it imagine if we were all the same there would be no point of us living. The good things about beeing different is mainly you will be your self. If you are different then you know who you are and you would know who you want to be.
A persons self esteem with another person in a relationship can affect that other person so much...like there is this one person who i know that thinks that he/she is ugly and it bothers me so much because he/she is always degrading there own self.. and if in general u make a rude comment to someone such as your spouse like a joke like "oh u look ugly" or like "put that down your fat" the person with the low self esteem will feel even worse about themselves.
A persons self esteem can affect a persons goal dramatically because if they want to go and start an exercise plan to lose weight it wont really work out for them because they will be like "I cant go run a mile" i cant do this and that… with all those comments said to there own selves it would just ruin there goals that they would like to achieve.
People think that being different from others is a bad thing because they believe they have to be in "the bubble" and they believe if they are not in "the bubble" that people would make fun of them and they wont fit in with others as well as they would if they were to be in "the bubble".
Good things about being different is that you do not have to worry about if our not dressing cool for that day or if your not being cool in general… because in other peoples eyes they just don’t even pay attention to you and they will just look at you like oh whatever same-o same-o...
Yes, put downs are different from if u were to receive them from a family member or friend because when u receive put downs from your family u take it much serious because your family is not supposed to make you feel bad and if they are putting you down for a certain reason then obviously u got to look into it even more and change who you are… and on the other hand if u were to receive put downs from your friends then you will just ignore it because they always say anything they want they don’t care if it will hurt your feelings or not they will just say what they have to say...
No, you can build your level of self esteem as an adult you just have to have commitment and have the "wanting to" type attitude in order to build self esteem but the most important part of building self esteem is to become physically active and have a great mind set to being committed to doing what they have to do because you cant have negativity going on in your brain and then also be a coach potato how will you build a better self esteem like that. It will not be possible.
A persons self-esteem can affect relationship with others by if a person fells bad about them self they feel unwanted around people they feel useless.
How self-esteem affect a persons ability to set and achieve goals by they will not set a goal because they dont want to let anyone down and if a goal is set they will fail to achieve it because feel useless.
People think that being different is bad because people want to fit in not to be an outsider or an outcast.
The good things about being different is because you are your own person not someone elses person.
Put downs are the same because what a persons says about stays with you and you don't like that image about you.
Your self-esteem is based on how you feel and if you are happy as an adult your self-esteem increases and when you are an adult you start to mature and change and you self-esteem changes.
Most often than no't when someone here the word self-esteem they think of a person feeling sad. But a person can have good self-esteem. If a person have bad self-esteem they could affect relatoinships with others.
Self-esteem can affect a person ability to set goals. Because if a person do no't have confidence in theirselves it would affect their abilities to achieve goals.
People think being different is a bad thing because others do no't see things from your point view. What i am saying is put your self in that person shoes.
Being diffrentis a good thing because you are unique in your own way. You do no't try to be like someone else just to be their friend.
I do no't think put downs are different from when a family member or a friend say something bad about you. It's going to hurt you just as much.
I do no't think you can increase your level of self-esteem once you are an adult. Because someone might have said something dab to the person when they were yonger. And they will still remember it when they are an adult. So when they think of it they will feel sad.So it would be too late by then.
Self-esteem is mostly about how someone feels inside. People’s self-esteem can be lowered by, people making fun of someone or teasing someone. Self-esteem is also how a person may feel about himself or herself. Teasing and making fun of someone may make them feel really bad about themselves or think that the comments that they are being called may be true. If you are being teased or talked about then you should know that whatever they are saying is not true.
Yes put downs are different from your family members other than your friends. The reason why it’s different because it would hurt more coming from your family. When a person comes from school having a bad day they would expect to go home for some relief but if someone in your family is ridiculing you they really don’t have a break from getting out down. I believe you can always increase you self-esteem any age. The reason why is because its basically getting good complements, and getting treated nice, and by always thinking positive about life
A person’s level of self-esteem can affect others because of what others may think and how they look at you. This can affect the ability to set and achieve goals because they will always think some one is going to put them down no matter what. They think that being different from others is being bad is because they don't dress the same or do what they do. Good things about being different are everyone has there own style and own talent. No I don't think that they are different no matter who they come from its still a put down. I think you can get your self-esteem up to where you don’t care about what the next person say.
I'm a put this in the best way I can put it. In the song. 16 bars.
self esteem can be many things 1
what people say, is one of them things 2
you try to keep on the low but you can't 3
you're actin like it is nothing, well it ain't 4
like mr. Bout said we have our own box 5
when you're around your friends it locks 6
but when you are all alone it opens without a key 7
your self esteem is how you feel and what you see 8
i agree with all who had an opinion on self esteem 9
if you have a low self esteem let's work it out like a team 10
walk in my shoes which you rank on all day 11
self esteem is like bills you can't pay 12
you are trying to lift self esteem like money 13
but you can't because life is not all honey 14
don't bully, you don't understand fully,there is kids who are put down 15
you hurted they're feeling by acting like a clown 16
I hope you like my song. But I'm a add this. Self esteem is everything from you mental, physical, and social health. If you are put down because of bullies, stand up to them and beat them in their own game. Bye.
In my opinion self esteem is important to me and others and we care wen people say something not very nice we might not show it write there but wen we go home then we deal with it some people can take it some cant. persons self esteem can affect persons achieving there goal because if they have low self esteem then they would feel sad moody and wont want to play or talk to others. i dont think being different is bad thing i think is ax Ely good it makes u feel good and be you who you are .puts downs are not different no meter were they come from or who they come from it steel hearts the persons felling, and i think it would heart eaven wors if it came from somebody from family or somebody that u look up two .I think you can increase your level of self-esteem when you get older adult and wen u grow up u learn how to deal with your problems.,and u wont care as much as u do or will if u are a teenager.
a person's self-esteem can affect the relationship of others by making them feel uncomfortable. when a person self-esteem are low they are not able to express their feeling or trust someone to even speak to them. it can affect them to achieve goal cause they can be afraid of what people would think of them, or they would take advantage of them. they think that it is a bad thing to be different from others is that there different and see thinks in other ways then the way that other people see it. if everyone was the same it would be really boring and with people being different they are unique and they would have something in them that other people might find interseting. i personally dont think they are diferent because they all would get upset or sad when some one puts them down and there are people out there that are sensitve when they are being put down and their are other people that can handle it. i dont think it is ever to late because their are people that always have negative attitude when they are younger and then get mature when they get older and start to see things diferently and have a positive attiutude.
Self esteem is a very important phase that we go through in our life time, and it determines how our future is going to be. If a person feels good about them self and who they are than their life is a lot easier and also getting along with people is a lot easier for them. But if you are always complaining about the negativities in your life and you are being picked on by other because of it, of course your self esteem is going to be low and you feel have a tough time fitting in with people. This is same way you can achieve your goals in life. If you have a high self esteem than your goals will become much easier to achieve but if you have low self esteem than you will find it very difficult achieving your goals. People think that if you are obese or if you dress differently than you are a freak and you will be picked on. But what they actually don't know is that those are the good qualities about life "being different". Because if everyone in the world was the same, than the world would not be as much fun to live in. Good things about being different are that you are being your self and you are not changing for no one just to fit in with the rest of the crew. Your are staying true to yourself. I believe that all put downs are the same but its just that if they come from your family member or your friend you don't take it as serious as you would from someone that just met saw you for the first time and started picking on you. I don't think its ever too late to increase how good you feel about yourself. People need to understand that bullying does not solve anything and it only leads to more violence and once they mature a little of bit or once they are made fun of because of something that they don't like about themselves then they should put themselves in the victims position and show some empathy.
If you have low self esteem than you will most likely end up arguing with your partner. If the person has low self esteem than they will not wanna leave the house because they will feel like they will be made fun of and that will get in the way of their future goals. And if they have high self esteem than their goals in life will be more easier the achieve. The reason people think that being different is a bad thing is because maybe they don't hang out with the top crews in school and they are being themselves and not getting in with the style. But what they don't know is that thats a good thing and being yourself is one of the most important things you can do in life. Put downs are different when they come from people you know because you won't take it as serious and you know that your family will not hurt you in most cases. But if it comes from someone that you don't know you will take it more serious and it may end up in a violent way. Yes you can always increase your self esteem because they are always positive things to look up in life and there is always that right time to move on and leave the past behind. Next time people try to make fun of someone, they should put themselves in their shoes and see how it feels.
I’m going to have to disagree with soccer player 300. The reason why im going to have to disagree with that certain individual is because lets say you had a bad day at school everybody was tormenting you and bullying you. Calling you names saying your ugly, fat, gay/homosexual, etc. I mean its one thing getting tormented in your school or at work. Those are people that you don’t even know or you might just know them but if they are supposedly your friends and they are constantly talking about they don’t even have the right to call themselves your friend. When people are making fun of you it hurts a lot but when you also have to go home and get tormented also by your own family members that are supposed to stand by through thick and thin. When somebody says something negative towards you your family is not supposed to agree with the negativity but they are supposed to say something positive towards you constantly for the person that is getting made fun of wont try anything stupid like hurt himself or herself or anybody else. But to go home and get tormented there to makes you start to believe that everything they are saying is true about you. They will start thinking nobody like them and eventually they wont be able to handle it and they will end up doing something they’ll end up regretting for the rest of their lives, or even worse they just night even commit suicide.
1. With there level of self- esteem, the way they are, can push people away or pull them toward
2. Because if there self - esteem is low then all the time they will feel like that they can't do any thing they put there minds to
3. They feel that it's a bad thing because there not like every one else there aren't normal as they put it and if you different than your not normal
4. I think good things about being different are that it's unique because you are your own person and not any one else
5. No put down are never different because if someone is putting you down it's all the same there still putting you down.
6. I kind of feel like it will be too late because they miss so much of life that process can be a while only if it's really y bad.
A persons self-esteem can affect the relationship with others is that if you feel bad about your self and see your self in this image, than the people around you will see this and they will feel bad about it too, but you can't expect that if you have this image about your self that you want start to treat another person bad, so you can make your self feel cosistrate on other things, and you don't feel like doing nothing because your afraid of what people are going to think of you, that’s why it's hard to follow your goals. I think people think that being different from others is a bad thing because, when your totally different from different types if individualisms, people start looking at you weird and you start being left out, and you get this feeling like everything is surrounding you, a wall that’s build up in front of you. Being different is good because, you are you and it you don't have to worry about looking like someone else and having the same thing that another person has. I think put down are the same, but i feel as teenagers take pit downs more from their friends, because it's their peers and they hurt the most. I agree with linkinpark22 because I think also that if your put down by your family member they’ll still be their at the end and they will still love you, but put downs by your friends could be just a joke, but it's you who goes home and has to deal with that joke, and it affects you in a lot of ways, and you might loose your friendship with someone with put downs. I think you could increase your self esteem even as you get as an adult because, everybody goes to self esteem, and something everybody deals with everyday off their life. I agree with jamestri1 because it would take sometime to do.
A persons self-esteem can definitely affect the kinds of relationships they have with others.For example they might not want to open up to others.Or they might feel like they cant trust others since they have been hurt before.Also a person with low self-esteem might have trouble setting or achieving goals because they might feel like they cant accomplish any thing.some people think that being different is a bad idea because they see how other people that are differnt, are treated and they dont want to get made fun of or any thing.The truth is they dont know that being different is a good thing.when you are different people look up to you for being who you are.I think that put downs are put bowns no matter who they are coming from or if the person said it in a joking way.we shouldnt put any one down.I liked how $ baby blue galant 7$ said that before we put others down, we should put our selfs in their shoes and see how it feels.I think yes and no, you can insrease you self-esteem as an adult but you might have an hard time doing that.Your childhood shapes who you are going to be as an adult.If you have an unhappy childhood then you will have an unhappy adulthood.It's going to be hard to increse your self-esteem level as an adult because your going to think of every thing bad that happen through out ur life.
The level of your self esteem can affect the relationship with others because if you dont feel good about yourself you wont be able to make friends and open up youll probably be too shy to introduce yourself to people. The way that people end up havin low self esteem is when other people put them down and make fun of them also maybe at home their familie tell them they arent worth anything and when they hear all that they dont feel good about themselves and they think that nobody wants to be their friend and so theyre scared to talk too people.Self esteem can affect peoples ability to set and achieve goals because they dont want to participate in anything because they think people will make fun of them.Usually people with low self esteem dont get involved in sports and activities in school because they think everybody will laugh at them and so theyre scared to give it a chance.People think that bein different is a bad thing because they feel like they wont fit in with other people.Kids are usually scared of being different because theyre scared of rejection and of havin everybody laugh at them and they feel like if they look like other people they will have friends and not be made fun of. Being different is usually a good thing but most people dont think that being different means being yourself and not doin stuff that everybody else does. To me bein different is when people are being themselves and doing stuff that they want to do not because somebody else is doing it. Also if you be yourself usually people will like you because you doing your own thing so for me bein different is a good because you show your real picture. I think that all put downs are the same it doesnt matter if theyre from familie or friends because they both hurt equal and they both make you feel bad about yourself.I agree with jametris1 about it takes time to increase your self esteem because youll always remember how people use to put you down and it will always bother you even when you get older but by the time you get older it dont hurt as much but it still hurts so itll probably take a long time to get over it but as you get older you think about it less and less.
Self Esteem is very important in everybody's eyes. Self Esteem is how you feel about yourself.There are two levels, high and low. High is when you feel good about yourself and bad is when you dont feel good about yourself at all. A lot of people joke around and bully each other. Which is wrong. No matter if people are joking or not many people dont know what the person who is getting bullied is thinking about. They could be thinking about killing themselfs or even coming into school the next day and kill the people who are bulling them. The way they feel about themselfs can affect the realationship with other people because if they dont feel good about themselfs then they are very self conscious. Having low self esteem can effect setting and achieving goals because you give up easily and you dont believe in yourself. But if you have good self esteem then you could achieve your goals and set goals that you could accoplish. People think that it is bad to be different because they feel bad about themselfes so they have to make fun of others when they cant make fun of themselves or when they feel bad about themselves. There is one major good thing about being different it is being unique and being yourself. In my eyes i think that put downs are different being told by family and friends because they person who is getting put down know when people are joking who are close to them and they dont know if they are joking or not if they are not friends or family. When you are an adult, i think you could increase your self esteem because you have been taught what are jokes and what arent and then you have more self consciousness in yourself when your an adult.
I think self esteem is a big part of relationships because sometime people might think that they are not good enough to talk with someone else, may sound silly but I've seen cases such as those.
It can affect people ability to set goals because they may think that they do not have what it takes to make a goal and think some of the goals they set are un-achievable because they are unreasonable.
Because ignorant people who don't know how to act tease others for being different and convincing hem that self expression is bad.
There are many advantages to being different, sometimes people who are different set fads or set trends making them "cool" and people liking them.
I think put downs hurt the most when they come from family members because these are people who you see everyday and have grown up with. Friends are people who you trust with secrets and what not and having them point out your faults in derragotory way.
I think its possible to change once you've grown up because you and the people you have grown up with have matured.
A person with a low self-esteem can affect a relationships with others by the person not talking to anybody. Staying in the classroom all quite and just sitting all by himself that will make it worse on the kid because he is going to be a lonely kid.
A kid with low self-esteem will affect his ability to set or achieve goals by telling himself he's not going to make it. Also by saying things like he sucks and he's a loser. Him saying all those things to himself he is not going to do anything. He is just going to be stuck in his room doing nothing instead of being a regular kid.
People think being an outsider is bad because they probably are not with the crew. They might not be wearing the latest shoes or clothes this is bad because it makes them do stuff that they will never do just to get in the crew.
The good thing about being different is you are you. That's how you want to live and nobody can change how you feel.
It would be different if you get put downs from you family because it will hurt you more because your family should love you no matter how you turn out to be.
I think it depends on the person because there are people who want to change and there are people don't really care how they are or how they act.!
1. a person would be less motivated to go out and do things with other people. they would rather sit at home and not try.
2. a person would be less motivated to complete the goals they have set for themselves if they even have the motivation to set them. self-esteem affects a persons motivation and makes them more lazy than those with self-esteem.
3. people being different thatn others will make them look at themselves and look at how the other person is better than they are.
4.you get to be yourself and are looked at as an individual that can be better than someone else and therefore raises a persons self-esteem.
5. put downs are more severe when they come from family members becuase they are the ones that you are always trying to impress.
6. your self-esteem becomes harder to increase once you are an adult becuase you are limited to things that you can do to raise your self-esteem.
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